My wife of 19 years passed away from ALS and FTD May of 2020. I miss her every day. This was our second marriage. Martha’s daughter passed away and we adopted her 3 and 5 year old daughters, one has autism and ADD. Long story short, we , you and I, both were / are loving fathers. All good. I like “The Four Agreements” by Ruiz really helps put the thoughts of others into perspective.