I agree. So what to do? Replace trivia night with get to know your neighbors. Offer tickets for 36. A theme like tell us stories from your childhood or time in the military or elder care. Rules no problem solving no politics. 6 Tables of 6. Everyone tells there story at a table 6 and folks can ask questions about the story but no judgements. Then switch tables once. After an hour folks just chat, eat or drink. Meet 11 people each night once a night for a year so 100 folks from your neighborhood in a year.